The
work ethic is part of the lifestyle. We like to contribute, take
pride in our effort and get compensated financially and emotionally.
Work is about integrating our personal rhythm with daily routines
and other people. As we get busy, life gets rushed; our personal
equilibrium gets harder to maintain and as a result we are giving
others partial attention. We make mistakes and misunderstandings
occur. That’s when negative “situations” begin
to occur at the workplace.
Here are some suggestions for turning a negative work environment
into a positive:
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When you start to feel negative, fool around, do nothing and relax.
You will obtain the amazing benefit of the creative process by releasing
wasted energy and opening up a medium for creative ideas to come
to you.
·
Manage your personal stress levels which helps you to be flexible
and not jump to conclusions. If you are hungry, take a break and
eat. If you are sleepy, take a ten minute power nap. If you are
irritable, take a walk.
·
Respond to the negative situation; don’t react. Look for positive
qualities in the people who push your button and go out of your
way to be helpful.
·
Positive moods occur when you make the most of yourself –
not turning your attention to others.
·
Adapt to the “situation” or the person, rather than
impose yourself.
·
Exchange places with your challenger at work. How does he or she
see you? How can you help them? Be affirmative, not negative.
·
Don’t worry about failing. Worry more about failing to be
kind, open and understanding. Everybody fails and gets rejected.
Failure helps you to grow and succeed. However, if you are unkind
and act without integrity even if you achieve success, you are suppressed
inside as a person.