Men
Long hair is back in fashion!

If being a longhair is part of your identity, you will probably feel like you were born that way. Identity arises in childhood, and it often goes back to our earliest memories. From our own perspectives, those of us with a longhair identity feel like we were born that way. And perhaps we were.

Men are starting to grow their hair long again, something which hasn't happened in abundance since the 60's and 70's. There was a brief bout of long hair popularity during the 1980s and 90s, but it was washed out with "anti-hippie" sentiment from conservative squares.

The thing about long hair is that its more sexual. It looks unique on every person. The way they are meant to look. Not everyone looks good with long hair however. Some people look okay with short or medium length hair... But almost all people look fabulously sexy with long hair. There's something about that mane of hair, almost lion-like or Christ-like, that has a sort of animal magnetism and natural beauty to it.

Hair is naturally beautiful. Its no surprise that more hair equals more attractive. In contrast to baldness, it is definitely more attractive. Most women prefer men with medium length to long hair. Short hair comes in 2nd, and baldness, last.
When the movie stars grow their hair long (sometimes its a wig) for a role, the attractiveness level goes up. Even it worked for Jesus Christ. Christ on the cross has been a hidden sex symbol for centuries, with his long sexy hair, rugged good looks, clad only a loin cloth and the well-toned muscles of a carpenter. He was naturally charismatic and the long hair must have helped to increase his popularity.

It's interesting to note how some conservative people get really upset when they see a man with long hair. They think the person is a hippie or gay, and are deliberately rude to that person as a result.

Charles Moffat, the founder of the Lilith Gallery is an artist and has long hair. He is frequently told he looks like a hippie and people frequently assume that because he has long hair and is an artist, "oh, well then he must be gay!" The truth is Moffat isn't gay. He is very much a horny straight male, judging by the fact that he paints nude/partially nude women on a regular basis!!
Long hair is for men what short hair is to women, a choice of lifestyle. Some women prefer to have short hair, or even shave their head.

If long hair is part of your identity, it may be as much a part of your mental picture of yourself as is your sex - generally another component of one's identity. If you are a man whose identity includes having long hair, the realization of that, of its importance to you, and of your determination to stand up for what you are, can bring you great internal peace. With that peace and determination, you can go much further than you ever could as a timid shorthaired man who was unhappy and clueless as to knowing who he was. This realization is a time for celebration, and a time for one to take pride in being what he is - a born longhair.


There are two reasons men become longhairs. You either do it for others, or you do it for yourself. You are longhaired because of fashion. You have long hair because you like the reactions it garners from other people. The second one is, you are longhaired because it is part of your identity. You have it because it is part of your identity - who you feel you yourself are. Your longhair mindset arises from within, not from others.

What others think about you will be the doubt arise in mind. Some of the questions are; Will people think I'm a girl? Will people think I am gay? Will gay men hit on me? What other things will people think? Leave all those stuffs.

If you are big boned with a very masculine face and you are six feet seven inches tall, no one will think that. They won't ask you either! If you are slight and effeminate in appearance, and you were counting on a masculine style of haircut before, to make you look masculine, then you might confuse some people.
The one way to dispel all misconceptions promptly is to grow facial hair. Head hair is not a sexual marker, but facial hair is, and in the direction you want to be read. No one will mistake you at all once you grow it, from the moment it is seen.

Only the ignorant ones will think that you are a gay. At the moment, long hair is quite rare in the gay community, and most longhairs that one sees are straight. Most longhairs do not look like women, most gay men do not want men who look like women anyway, and long hair is out of fashion at the moment in most gay circles, anyway. So forget this one.

People's hair, if given time to grow and kept neatly will eventually which a naturally long state. And that natural state is incredibly sexy and attractive, the way we were meant to be seen.

Cut your hair differently, grow it long, medium, perm it. Do something wild/natural with it! Don't shave off your chest hair just because thats what fashion models do... grow that rug! Give your woman something to hold onto when you're giving it to her! Women who crave hairless men are control freaks who don't realize they're missing out on a beautiful thing!

The natural male body, provided its not overweight and sluggish from too many donuts is a gorgeous thing. A physical Adonis of male beauty, capped on top with lush full hair.

One important thing to consider at a time discrimination occurs is the answer to the question, "Why am I a longhair?" The answer may help you decide whether you will cut your hair or not.


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